The Collapse of Parenting: Why It's Time for Parents to Grow Up
MACLEANS.CA -- [ISMAILI DIGEST ED: For those unaware, Macleans is Canada's "Time Magazine."] ARTICLE: Not long ago, Dr. Leonard Sax was at a restaurant and overheard a father say to his daughter, "Honey, could you please do me a favour? Could you please just try one bite of your green peas?" To many this sounds like sophisticated parenting -- gentle coaxing formed as a question to get the child's co-operation without threatening her autonomy. To Sax the situation epitomized something much worse: the recent collapse of parenting. The scene is a prime example of parents relinquishing authority, losing confidence in themselves and defering to kids. A rule such as "No dessert until you eat your broccoli" has morphed into "How about three bites of broccoli, and then you can have dessert?" The command has become a question capped with a bribe. "When parents ...







































